Navigating Gestational Surrogacy With Road To Baby: What Intended Parents and Surrogates Should Know
Road To Baby surrogacy has transformed the landscape of family building. Guided by our mission “making parenthood possible”, we support individuals and couples who face infertility, same sex couples, single parents, and those who cannot carry a pregnancy themselves. Surrogacy creates a powerful path to parenthood. The journey is exciting, and it naturally comes with questions: medical, legal, ethical, emotional, and financial.
In this blog, we’ll guide you through key aspects of gestational surrogacy with Road To Baby: how it works, common misunderstandings, the role of genetics (or lack thereof) in the surrogate child connection, and practical tips for both intended parents and surrogates.
Let’s get started!
What Is Gestational Surrogacy?
Let’s start simple. Gestational surrogacy is when a woman (the gestational carrier) carries and delivers a baby for someone else but the baby is not genetically related to her. The embryo is created using IVF from the intended parents or donors. That means:
- The surrogate does not use the intended parents’ egg
- She does not share DNA with the baby
- She does give the gift of a safe, loving womb for nine months
This version of surrogacy is the most common today because it’s legally clearer, emotionally smoother, and medically well-supported.
It’s modern family building at its best: safe, structured, and filled with heart.
Why People Choose Surrogacy through Road To Baby
Every surrogacy journey starts with love, but the reasons behind it can be beautifully diverse.
Intended parents often choose surrogacy through Road To Baby because:
- Carrying a pregnancy isn’t medically possible
- They’ve experienced pregnancy loss or infertility
- Same-sex couples want a biologically connected child
- They are a single parent by choice
- They’re transgender or non-binary parents who can’t carry but want to grow their family
Road To Baby Surrogates choose this path because:
- They genuinely love being pregnant
- They want to help another family experience the joy they’ve had with their own children
- They feel called to do something meaningful, rare, and life changing while financially supporting their own family.
How the Surrogacy Process Works At Road To Baby
Gestational surrogacy may feel big and complicated but with Road To Baby it's made simple for you, our team makes every step clear, supportive, and empowering. From emotional guidance to comprehensive physical care coordination, we’re here to ensure both intended parents and surrogates feel confident, informed, and fully supported throughout the entire journey.
1. Matching & Screening
This is where the magic begins. At Road To Baby, our thoughtfully selected surrogates go through medical and psychological screening to make sure they’re healthy and prepared. Intended parents also complete their own evaluations.
Then comes the match, a process we treat with care. We pair people who feel right together, whether you want a close, ongoing relationship or a warm, respectful but simple partnership. Throughout this step, our team provides emotional support and guidance so no one feels alone.
2. Legal Agreements
Before anything moves forward, everyone signs a clear contract that lays out expectations, rights, responsibilities, and boundaries. No guesswork. No confusion. Just clarity, safety, and reassurance for everyone.
3. IVF & Embryo Prep
Intended parents create embryos through IVF. Surrogates prepare their uterus, think of it as “nesting” on a cellular level with the help of medications and guidance from the Road To Baby team.
4. Embryo Transfer & Pregnancy
The embryo is transferred, and with a little luck and a lot of science, a pregnancy begins. Throughout the pregnancy, our surrogate receives ongoing support: physically, emotionally, and logistically from the Road To Baby team. Keeping Intended parents connected & updated with appointments, belly pics, or simple check-ins full of excitement.
5. Delivery Day
This is the moment everyone has waited for. Our intended parents meet their baby, the surrogate completes her journey, and everyone celebrates a life changing milestone together.
Many of our Road To Baby families and surrogates stay connected long after birth, sometimes forming lifelong friendships rooted in gratitude, shared purpose, and the joy of bringing a new life into the world. Here’s what some of our incredible surrogates have shared:
“I cannot say enough wonderful things about Road To Baby! From the very beginning, they made my surrogacy journey feel safe, supported, and truly special. The entire team was kind, professional, and always quick to answer any questions I had along the way.
They guided me through every step with patience and care, making sure I always felt comfortable and informed. I never felt alone in the process—the support was constant, whether it was with paperwork, medical appointments, or just checking in to see how I was doing.”— Ina KP, Road To Baby Surrogate
“Loved working with Denise from Road To Baby — she was so helpful and supportive through every step. She made sure I was taken care of, absolutely love her.
The company helped me and my intended parents through this beautiful journey we took together. If you want to help your life while helping others become a family, this is the company to go to. I can’t wait until my second journey. Thank you Road To Baby and a big thank you to Denise!” — Leslie M., Road To Baby Surrogate
“I completed my surrogacy journey as a surrogate and I am so grateful to be part of this agency — all the staff members are amazing.
Thank you Melody, Deseray, and Jue for always being there for me and making sure everything was taken care of. They even send you a care package and a delivery bag with all the supplies you need after delivery so you don’t have to worry about buying anything. Definitely I will choose Road To Baby again.” — Brenda C., Road To Baby Surrogate
Let’s Clear Up Some of the Most Common Surrogacy Myths
Surrogacy is beautiful, but there’s still a lot of confusion floating around. So let’s bust the biggest misconceptions together.
✅ Myth 1: “The surrogate is giving away her baby.”
Nope. In gestational surrogacy, the carrier is not genetically connected to the baby. She’s carrying someone else’s embryo and goes into the journey knowing exactly what her role is.
✅ Myth 2: “Surrogacy is easier than adoption."
Both paths are meaningful and important. Road To Baby surrogacy involves IVF, matching, contracts, medical care, costs, and careful planning. Adoption involves its own unique processes. Neither is “easy” and neither should be compared. Both procedures deserve their own respect and it is a decision intended parents are to make.
✅ Myth 3: “Surrogates get too attached.”
Carriers are screened, supported, and emotionally prepared long before they ever begin. They usually describe the attachment as caretaking;nurturing the baby for the intended parents until the moment they finally meet.
✅ Myth 4: “Kids born through surrogacy struggle emotionally.”
Research shows that children born through surrogacy are just as happy, healthy, and well adjusted as any other kids. Family is about love, connection, and support and these kids get plenty of it.
✅ Myth 5: “The surrogate’s DNA affects the baby.”
This is one of the most common questions we hear. Do Surrogates Share DNA With the Baby?
Short answer: No.
Long answer: Still no, but let’s put our thinking caps on!
Understanding Genetics in Gestational Surrogacy
In gestational surrogacy, the embryo is created using the egg and sperm of the intended parent(s) or donors. Because the gestational carrier does not contribute her own eggs, she has no genetic relationship to the baby. The baby’s DNA is determined entirely at the moment the embryo is created, long before it is transferred to the carrier’s uterus.
What the gestational carrier does provide is an essential and highly skilled role: she offers a safe, healthy, and nurturing environment for the baby to grow. She supplies oxygen, nutrients, warmth, protection, and all the complex biological support that allows the pregnancy to develop.
People sometimes refer to “epigenetics,” which describes how the environment inside the uterus can influence the activity of certain genes such as which ones are turned up or down. This can shape aspects of development, but it does not alter the baby’s genetic code. The DNA itself remains exactly as it was when the embryo was formed.
A simple way to explain:
The intended parents carefully mix together all the special ingredients to make a wonderful cake batter, and then the gestational carrier lovingly puts it in the warm oven and bakes it until it becomes the perfect little cake everyone has been waiting for.
A Fascinating Fact About Pregnancy and Surrogacy
One of the most remarkable aspects of pregnancy whether through traditional conception or gestational surrogacy is the way a baby develops within its own protected environment. Every baby grows inside an individual amniotic sac, often called the “bag of waters,” and relies on a placenta that carefully regulates the exchange of nutrients and oxygen.
What’s especially interesting is that the baby’s blood supply remains completely separate from the person carrying the pregnancy. Because the two blood systems do not mix, it’s entirely normal for a baby to have a completely different blood type from the carrier. This applies to all pregnancies.
In gestational surrogacy, this separation is even more significant. The embryo is created from the intended parent(s) or donors, meaning the gestational carrier contributes no genetic material. The baby develops in the carrier’s uterus, but remains genetically distinct and continues to grow within their own amniotic sac, safely maintained by their own unique biology.
This natural design highlights just how beautifully complex and beautifully consistent the process of pregnancy is, no matter how a family is formed.
Important Considerations: Legal, Ethical, and Financial
Even though surrogacy is filled with love, it’s also a serious process and we treat it with the structure it deserves.
Legal
Every journey includes legal agreements that outline expectations, medical decisions, parentage rights, and financial details. Laws vary by state, so expert guidance is critical.
Ethical
Surrogacy should always prioritize the health, autonomy, and wellbeing of the surrogate, the intended parents, and the baby. Proper screening, transparent communication, and fair compensation ensure the journey is respectful and safe.
Financial
Surrogacy involves medical costs, legal fees, surrogate compensation, insurance, and associated expenses. It’s important that intended parents understand the total investment and that surrogates are always fully covered and supported.
Tips for a Smooth, Loving Surrogacy Journey
If You’re an Intended Parent:
- Get to know your team at Road To Baby
- Ask questions, lots of them!
- Think about what kind of relationship you want with your surrogate
- Be prepared for emotional ups and downs
- Stay communicative! trust builds strong partnerships
- Celebrate small milestones along the way
If You’re a Surrogate:
- Make sure you feel informed and empowered at every step
- Share your expectations, communication is magic
- Take care of your health and wellbeing
- Lean on the support systems your agency provides
- Remember your “why” it will help you through the tough days
- Know that what you’re doing is extraordinary, rare, and profoundly meaningful
The Heart of Surrogacy through Road To Baby
Surrogacy isn’t just a medical process. It’s not just a contract. It’s not just a pregnancy.
It’s a partnership rooted in trust, respect, and shared purpose. It’s individuals and couples dreaming of a family. It’s a woman stepping forward with courage, kindness, and generosity.
It’s Hope, It’s Love.
with Road To Baby, you are never alone. We are honored to walk beside every person who steps into this world providing guidance, emotional support, and reassurance every step of the way. Final Thoughts
Whether you’re considering becoming a gestational surrogate or you’re ready to grow your family, surrogacy through Road To Baby is a journey filled with possibility, connection, and heart. With the right support system and a team who treats you like family it can be one of the most meaningful experiences of your life.
Road To Baby is here to guide, support, and celebrate with you at every step.
Whenever you’re ready, we’re ready too. 💛