Common Surrogate Questions Answered

Becoming a surrogate is an incredibly rewarding journey, but it often comes with a lot of questions. At Road to Baby, we strive to provide clarity and support for new surrogates. Here are some of the most common questions we receive, answered to help you feel informed and confident in your decision to embark on this life-changing experience.

What Are the Qualifications to Become a Surrogate?

The first step to becoming a surrogate is understanding the qualifications required. Generally, surrogates should be between the ages of 21 and 39, have had at least one healthy pregnancy, and maintain a stable lifestyle. Additionally, it's crucial to have a support system in place, as this journey can be emotionally, physically, and mentally demanding. Each surrogacy agency, including Road to Baby, will have specific requirements, so it's important to review these carefully during the application process.

What Is the Surrogacy Process Like?

Many new surrogates wonder about what the surrogacy process entails. While every arrangement can vary, the general process includes application screening, medical evaluations, legal agreements, and pregnancy monitoring. After being matched with intended parents, surrogates undergo medical and psychological screenings, medical procedures related to embryo transfer and will have regular appointments throughout the pregnancy. Road to Baby will offer guidance at every step, ensuring you feel supported and informed throughout your journey.

How Are Surrogates Compensated?

Compensation is often a significant consideration. First time surrogates receive a base fee of $55,000 - $60,000 plus additional benefits that help support you throughout your journey totaling $10,000 +. We are also proud advocates of our repeat surrogates. We have matched experienced surrogates for a base fee of $100,000+! Surrogates can expect to receive a base compensation, which varies based on location, experience, and agency guidelines. There will also be additional reimbursements and allowances to help support you throughout the journey like; maternity clothing, childcare, lost wages, mileage reimbursement, paid travel, health and life insurance benefits. Road to Baby values transparency, so you will receive a detailed breakdown of all financial benefits during your admissions process.

What Support Is Available for Surrogates?

Emotional and psychological support is essential during every stage of the surrogacy journey. At Road to Baby, your well-being is our priority. We offer access to professional counseling and peer support groups to help you navigate any feelings of anxiety, uncertainty, or overwhelm. Connecting with fellow surrogates who truly understand your experience can be incredibly grounding and empowering.

As part of our benefits package, surrogates receive a $100 Surrogate Support and Wellness Allowance for attending support group sessions. These sessions are led by experienced therapists and industry professionals and are thoughtfully designed to provide guidance, emotional support, and real tools at every phase of your journey.

We also host regular in-person events—from brunches and picnics to movie nights and more—so you can bond with other incredible Road to Baby surrogates and build lasting friendships.

Get Started Today

Becoming a surrogate is an incredible opportunity that only a select few can embark on. By answering these common questions, we hope to alleviate some of the uncertainty surrounding this journey. At Road to Baby, we are committed to guiding you through every step, making this experience as rewarding as possible. If you have more questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to our surrogacy agency—we’re here to help!

Jennifer Carrillo