🤔✨ Should You Go Independent or Work With a Surrogacy Agency? Here's What Every Surrogate Should Know
Thinking about going the independent route as a surrogate?
Ask yourself: Do you really have the time for one more task? If the answer is “yes”… you may want to consider an independent match.
But if the answer is HECK NO! then mama, Road to Baby is the way to go!
We handle the hard stuff so you can focus on the fun stuff (like growing a tiny human and getting pampered along the way). 🍼
Becoming a surrogate is one of the most generous, life-changing decisions a woman can make. But before you begin your journey, there’s an important choice to make:
Should you match independently or work with a surrogacy agency? 🤝
What Is an Independent Match?
An independent match is when a surrogate connects with intended parents directly without an agency involved. Maybe it’s through a Facebook group, a mutual friend, or an online post.
While this might sound more personal or even “simpler,” it also means you’re in charge of everything.
You’ll need to:
🔍 Find and vet intended parents on your own
⚖️ Handle legal contracts and hire your own attorney
📅 Schedule your own appointments and coordinate with fertility clinics
💵 Manage payments, reimbursements, and escrow (often with no third-party protection)
🙋🏽♀️ Advocate for yourself in tough conversations
For some experienced surrogates, this may work, but for many, it can feel like a full-time job without the support and no payments for all the work you’ll be doing. 😓
🏡 What Does a Surrogacy Agency Like Road to Baby Do?
When you partner with a surrogacy agency like Road to Baby, you're never alone in this journey. We guide you from the very beginning to long after delivery with your safety, comfort, and joy as our priority.
Here’s what you can count on:
❤️ Safe Matching: We find the right match for you, saving you time
⚖️ Legal Support: We coordinate with attorneys to ensure your rights and needs are protected
🏥 Medical Coordination: We handle scheduling with clinics, medications, and travel arrangements
💰 Compensation Security: All payments are managed through licensed escrow, always on time, no chasing involved, always protected!
📞 Advocacy & Emotional Support: Your dedicated case manager is your guide, cheerleader, and trusted advocate throughout the entire journey. We go beyond logistics to fiercely protect your best interests, ensuring you receive the most comprehensive care and support.
Our benefit package is customizable to your needs, and every surrogate is automatically enrolled in a $750,000 life insurance policy, a level of protection many agencies don’t offer. Because your safety, security, and peace of mind matter.
🌸 Community: You'll connect with other Road to Baby surrogates and be invited to exclusive in-person and virtual events so you never feel like you're doing this alone. From group chats to surrogate brunches, you'll be part of a supportive sisterhood that reminds you you're part of something truly special.
Think of it as having a whole team that’s just here for you. 🙌
💬 What Surrogates Say About Going Independent vs. Agency-Supported We’ve supported many women who first tried going independent but came to us feeling unsupported or overwhelmed. Here’s what we hear most often:
“I didn’t realize how much went into this until I was already deep in.”
“There were so many gray areas I had to figure out on my own.”
“With an agency, I finally felt protected and valued.”
It’s not just about convenience—it’s about peace of mind.
💡 The Bottom Line
Independent matching may offer more flexibility, but it often comes with a lot of risk, confusion, and emotional labor. 😞
With a reputable agency, you get:
✅ Professional guidance
✅ Legal & financial protection
✅ Emotional support
✅ A smoother, safer journey
Surrogacy is a big decision—make sure your support system is just as strong as your heart. 💖
💌 Ready to Learn More?
Whether you’re still exploring or ready to start, we’d love to answer your questions, connect you with other surrogates, and help you feel 100% supported in your decision. No pressure, just honesty. 🤍